Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Its contest time again

Its competition time again, we have a new look to our community forum and members personal sections and pages with blogs, galleries, personal guestbooks and profiles on our Free site at CollarNcuffs.com, so we want to give you something new and free also to celebrate. We look smart so now its your turn.

HOW TO ENTER
To enter the competition all you have to is write either a Femdom story/poem or a ‘how to’ page that can used in the resource section…..Simple hey!.
I just want to give stuff away to celebrate So I‘m being very flexible with the format.

Your entry/s must your own original material and not published else where.
Entries may include photos and/or art work. use your imagination and have fun with your entry/s. Stories, poems and resource pages are great, but dressed up with some pics WOW now, that’s got to get our attention. This is your chance to shine and show us all how clever, and creative you are.

Submit your “entry” to the forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.
Each entry needs to be added as a new topic in the contest section (start a new thread)
You may enter as many entries as you wish.
Dead line for entries is 23rd August 2008
All pictures (if added) to entry/s must be your own original content (or Creative Commons copyright) and must be placed and linked from your personal album.
(if you are unsure on how to do this contact admin)

SOME IDEAS AND SUGGESTIONS:

Write a Femdom story it could be real or just a fantasy you have.

Write a Femdom ode or poem. Poems may even be dedicated to your partner.

Why not write a Femdom story and include some personal pictures or art works showing ‘just‘ what happened, or use pics to set the scene.

You could recreate that CBT scene you had, or dream off, maybe even give instructions if story writing is not your thing.

Or how mistress has you chastity, what CB’s are, how they work, the impact on the mind, body, relationship

Or how she likes you to dress. Do you have advise on clothing selections or ‘how too’ instructions for ‘forced Femme’ maybe corsets are you thing, how do you care for them, find the right sizing, correct lacing, what’s the history of corsets?

Maybe your good at giving a manicure, manicure or sensual massage...instructions and pics on the process could make for interesting resource page.

Recourse page entries need to be instructional , factual, or informative, or at the least ’food for thought’

have you made a toy or planning on making a toy. Why not include photos of your progress and finished item.
Good with rope? What about a step by step instruction page with pictures.
Got a Femdom game you play? Instructions would be a wonderful addition.

The limits are only your imagination.
Imaginative entries attract attention, attention gets you prizes.
What are you wanting for…go on get creative!!!

JUDGING:

Once all the entries are in, the contest threads will be closed. Admin will set up a poll on the top of each thread submission and registered forum members can all vote for the favourite entry.
Dead line for entries is 23rd August 2008
Polls for voting will be listed on the 24th and run till the 30th August 2008
Admin will announce the winner with the most votes after September 1st 2008
prize choice will be mailed soon after.
(If a tie occurs outside judges will be consulted)

PRIZES:

the winner with the highest vote count chosen by forum members will be able to select one pack from our prizes of their own personal choice.
20 Prizes packs with details will be listed under this thread.
The winner will be able to pick of their own personal choice.
Admin will also pick one more additional winner for most 'creative ad unusual entry' who will also be able to choose a price pack

CONDITIONS:

You must be a member of CollarNcuffs.com forum to enter. And at least of made one Forum post (saying hello is a great way to start) and filled out your profile (MPS My Personal Space).

Profiles that display a blank user pic will be disqualified from entry. Avatars/Images are fine, stock forum images are also fine 'no image selected' is NOT fine.

All members can vote, but vote only once on each thread submission. Contestants are encouraged to cajole, bribe, entice, and beg members to vote for them, and even refer new members to sign up on the site to vote - but those caught creating false profiles just to stuff the ballot box, will be disqualified. And yes, we DO have WAYS.

Any member, individual, couple, or business may enter. Your submissions should be creative, reflect who you are and have a Femdom theme. Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to make a more impressive entry.

Winners agree to provide a name and address to Admin in order for the prize to be sent via mail (if chosen). In the event a winner does not provide a name and mailing address, the winner forfeits any claims to their prize. Mailed parcels are sent as discreetly as possible in plain unmarked packaging. In the event prizes are mailed outside of Australia a customs declaration will be filled out to suit the relevant prizes nature and marked ‘household goods’ or ‘personal items’ or ‘clothing’ All parcels will be marked ‘gift/present‘.

Prizes can be transferable to another forum member, please note offering your prize to another member does not leave said member indebted to you in any way. IE this is not a ‘tribute’ or taken as ‘payment’ prize items transferred are seen as gifts and nothing more. Transferred prize recipients will contacted on the winners behalf by Admin.

prizes cannot be redeemed for cash.

Moderators of chatrooms and forums are eligible to enter as their position in this area does not give them access to voting counts or special privileges.

By submitting an entry you are verifying that the work is your own creation and that the submission may be published as we see fit in any medium on our website and/or blog

Topics that are off limits
(Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another)


Admin reserve the right to delete inappropriate submissions and refuse contest entries.

Wondering what prizes are on offer ?
























full photo packs of prizes can be seen on the sites

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Masturbate-a-thon

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Sunday, April 20, 2008

Dominant Damsels Birthday






Born on April 22, 1923, in Nashville, Tennessee

With locks as dark as midnight and a smile as bright as day, Bettie Page was much more than a beautiful pinup model, she was simply the best. A legend as much today as during her modeling days, every facet of Bettie's life and personality captures the interest and devotion of the thousands of fans that followed her career until the day of her mysterious disappearance.


Bettie's numerous contradictions undoubtedly added to her charismatic personality. Nice and naughty, shy and daring, simple and exotic, Bettie shone with a freshness never before seen in the modeling industry. Without elaborate props, costumes, or set-dressings, Bettie produced some of the most beautiful shots to ever grace the covers of hundreds of magazines. Bettie's smoothly tanned skin, deep blue eyes and coal-black hair with her trademark bangs, were enough inspiration to spark the imagination of even the least experienced photographers. Her "girl next door" look and innocent smile only complemented that explosive combination of features.




Through the 1980s and the 1990s, Bettie Page re-surged as a modeling icon. The media, intrigued by her mysterious disappearance launched a countrywide search for Bettie. Comic books soon featured characters that resembled Bettie, contemporary artists such as Olivia, Dave Stevens, and Robert Blue immortalized their idol with their powerful images. Today, Bettie is enjoying her private life with her family.



Bettie's undeniable influence is present still today in fashion, films, and magazines just to name a few. The dark-haired girl from Nashville has become a living legend, a modern icon, a symbol of beauty and femininity that transcends ordinary standards. In the heart of her adoring fans, Bettie will forever remain the queen of pinup.




for more Betty

Visit BettiePage.com!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Tag I'm it

Ohhh crap I've been tagged





As Saratoga wrote in this post, the rules of the game are:



-Write your own six word memoir

-Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like

-Link to the person that tagged you in your post

-Tag five more Blogs with links

-And don’t forget to leave a comment on the tagged Blogs with an invitation to play



Saratoga wrote the below





For quite some time, I suppose the salient characteristic of my approach to life

is to explore new intellectual, emotional and/or personal terrain while

leaving behind things which are no longer useful or necessary. A graduate

school friend once remarked on my ability to continually change and reshape

myself according to my current needs and planned explorations.

Thus, like Nina, describing what I consider to be a hallmark of my life is also pretty

easy. The concept was instantly clear- it just took a little effort to get the exact wording right.

My six-word memoir:



Pushing new frontiers without unnecessary baggage.



Now that I've had my fun, I

tag Lenora, Milliscent, Bonnie, MsSnS and MsCatwoman to play.








I hate being tagged but seeing it’s Saratoga I'll give it ago.



Ever Moving Forward Never Looking Back







Forever:

because I know I’ve meet my soul mate for forever.



Moving:

I never stop moving. Moving either as in movement sake or moving house is always ever present on my mind. Riding moving with the road.





Forward:

I love the direction my life has taken. When I was in my early 20’s I never imagined life could take me where it has. I still have many more years and wonderful adventures and travels planed. Standing still you forget to learn. Still to me means stagnating.





Never:

I have this list of ‘Never’

never do ‘this’ or ‘that‘, this year I decided I decided to increase moving, better the forward directions I’m taking and turn some of those never do’s into must conquer and do’s and add to my never have to conquer again list





Looking:

I’m always looking for new ways, new adventures, new toys, new skills. I always tell my boys you never know what you’ll find unless you looking around you. Stop looking and things pass you by.





Back:

a place from back there that’s gone. A person from back there that’s gone. A family from back there that’s gone. A past that shaped me into a person Forever Moving Forward Never Looking Back.











I’ve picked this picture because it’s my new toy, it sort of links my past to my present plus give me ‘movement’ I grew up on the right side of tracks but choose to hang out on the other side. My life was full of bikes, subbiebikers, and misadventures. I seek adrenaline and they gave it too me. As I’ve aged this part of me kept returning…the bikers are long gone now but that addiction remains. I guess no matter how much we change and grow over the years something’s of our past never do. Hey at least now I can wear more leathers ;-)



I’m choosing not tag five, as reading back through most of the bloggers have already been tagged LOL





Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Show some love..please :)

Vote for Us!




We are in the final stretch now, only two more weeks of voting before this years winners are crowned! To vote in this stage, simply click on the link below and select from the drop down names available. Please remember that these names are the top contenders in their respective categories and achieved the minimum number of votes to advance.





please vote for CollarNcuffs.com we are free resource and community site which is a free site, totally advertisement free, and receives no funding or sponsorship from pay sites. Getting this far in the voting process (stage two making the short list) has been an honor, thank you to every one who helped get us this far..getting an award would be a major achievement

scroll down to 'best free site' and vote for 'CollarNcuffs'

http://www.bondageawards.com/stage_two_voting.asp



Sunday, March 30, 2008

Violence & Discrimination Survey





Please take a minute to fill out the anonymous Violence & Discrimination Survey, even if you have not been a victim of violence or discrimination. Thank you!
Click here to take the survey.

Why You Should Care

Because your sexual expression...

Can result in discrimination, prosecution, and even violence against you
Can cause you to lose your children
Can cause you to lose your job or your income
Can lead you into a maze of antiquated laws and regulations you never even knew existed
Is arbitrarily criminalized by state and local authorities
Is used by the radical right to marginalize minority groups
Can result in the invasion of your privacy by the government, both within your own home or in educational, social and group environments


Please help us by taking a moment to fill out this survey even if you have not been a victim of discrimination or violence. We are tracking demographics of our community and we also need to know the types of crimes, discrimination, harassment and abuses of authority that occur based on sexual expression or the perceived association with BDSM-Leather-Fetish groups. This is an anonymous survey being distributed to the BDSM-Leather-Fetish communities throughout the world. We do not ask for your name, address or any other identifying information and all responses made on this website are fully encrypted. Any questions that require a response are marked with an asterisk. You may contact the authors of this survey by emailing surveybdsm@gmail.com, or by writing to us at: Survey of Violence and Discrimination, 875 Sixth Avenue Suite 1705, New York, NY 10001.Thank you for helping us raise the level of awareness of this important issue to our community. By completing this survey you are not only helping us to better understand ourselves, but you are helping in the fight for sexual freedom and sexual equality for all sexual minorities.



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Thursday, January 24, 2008

In honour of amore competition


Valentine's Day, a holiday honouring love and lovers, is celebrated on February 14th.

In the spirit of the holiday, we invite you to enter a little celebration







You can have the chance to win:


Grrl toyz pink play heart shaped paddle Spank your playmate into submission, demand control with this 12” by 3” studded paddle with wrist cord. Triple heart raised pattern is guaranteed to leave an impression. Also included in this prize pack Pink beaded nipple clamps by Spartacus Slim sleek and lovely, decorative (pic does not do justice) nipple clamps to adorn the body while creating a pleasurable sensation with out the weight of heavier clamps ,it’s your choice-adjustable for light pressure, or full strength intensity, rubber tipped for comfort and confident grip. Total prize value: $50
In honour of ‘Amore’
Being your slave what should I do but tend Upon the hours,
and times of your desire?
I have no precious time at all to spend;
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world without end hour,
Whilst I, my sovereign,
watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour,
When you have bid your servant once adieu;
Nor dare I question with my jealous thought Where you may be,
or your affairs suppose,
But, like a sad slave,
stay and think of nought Save, where you are,
how happy you make those.
So true a fool is love,
that in your will,
Though you do anything,
he thinks no ill.
~William shakspeare~ Sonnet 57
To enter the competition all you have to is write a poem/ ode/ or love letter.
The letter/ode/poem can be to you significant other or the partner of dreams, or in the true spirit of Valentines “to your secret Valentine” Submit your “In honour of Amore” entry to our thread on Collarncuffs.com's forum and you will be registered for a chance to win.
rules and conditions posted at collar N cuffs Forum.